Self-Care Isn’t a Luxury. You’re Just Doing It Wrong.
- Emma Sandgren
- Oct 24
- 2 min read

Self-care can feel overwhelming when it’s presented as a list of long, time-consuming tasks or impossible routines. Many people feel like adding one more thing to their day is just another chore. The good news is that self-care doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be simple, practical, and easy to fit into your life. At first, it might take a little time to figure out what feels nourishing and comforting for you. But once you discover what works, caring for yourself becomes a natural, manageable part of your day. As well as something to look forward to.
With that being said, everyone's self-care looks somewhat different, and what matters most is discovering strategies that fit your life, your needs, and your energy level. You may not even know where to start! Some of the strategies listed below are great building blocks when looking into what works for you. And not only that, they're easy and practical.

Start with your basic needs: Eating well, getting enough sleep, moving your body in ways you enjoy, and taking time to rest are foundational. These are essential for your mental and physical health. When these basics are neglected, stress, irritability, and fatigue build up quickly.
Set boundaries and protect your energy: Are you saying yes to everything while leaving nothing for yourself? Boundaries are a form of self-care. They protect your time and energy and allow you to invest in what truly matters. Saying no when something doesn’t serve you is a healthy, powerful choice.
Incorporate small moments of joy: This could be as simple as a five-minute stretch, a cup of tea in silence, listening to a favorite song, or writing down one thing you are grateful for. These little moments accumulate and can significantly improve your mood and perspective.
Lean on connection: Reach out to a friend or family member, check in with a supportive colleague, or talk to a counselor when things feel heavy. Social support is a vital part of self-care and can remind you that you are not alone in life’s challenges.
Self-care is not about perfection or doing everything right. It’s about consistent, small actions that honor your needs, create balance, and foster well-being. Start small, experiment, and adjust as you go. You deserve care, kindness, and attention every day.





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